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| I’m
Mary Ellen Kocopi, a certified life coach, dedicated to coaching
mothers who have lost a child to adoption. From the deepest place
in my heart, I welcome you. I invite you to linger here for a while
to discover the support that is available to you through my coaching.
Have
you…
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Given up a baby
to adoption and buried your pain and grief? |
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Secretly hungered for relief
from your oldest, deepest burden? |
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Wondered whether you should
search, yet are afraid to? |
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Found your lost child, or
been found, and don’t know what to do next? |
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Reunited and experienced many
emotions you weren’t expecting? |
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You
don’t need to face these things alone! |
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| I
relinquished my daughter for adoption when I was 16 and spent what
seemed like a lifetime attempting to overcome the pain, shame, guilt
and anger I didn’t want to face. Some of the thoughts and
beliefs that swirled around in my head for years may sound familiar
to you…
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I thought since I couldn’t
change the past and raise my daughter, there was nothing that
would help. I gave up my rights a long time ago. I wondered
if I somehow deserved to be punished. |
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Maybe…just maybe… if I could
reunite with my daughter, it would be the solution to everything. |
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Because all records were sealed, I believed
I had very little chance of finding my daughter anyway. My past
failed search attempts were proof of that. |
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I feared if I did find her I would be
an intrusion in her life and that she would probably hate me.
If she wanted me in her life, she would find me. |
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I expected, if I searched and reunited
with my daughter, my entire family would once again, be hurt,
embarrassed and ashamed of me. |
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familiar? It doesn’t have to be this way!
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years of self-recrimination, I finally reunited with the part
of myself I had left behind. I learned to love myself…all
of who I am. From a place of renewed self-love, healing and
acceptance, I also searched for and found my daughter. Together
we created a loving relationship that is precious to both
of us.
Whether you are pursuing
a search or have decided not to, have found and reunited,
or have been rejected, a life coach can support you. I encourage
you to read about my coaching and how it might serve you.
I’d love to chat with you and ask you to accept my gift
of a free coaching session so you can get a sense of my coaching
and what it is like to be coached. I promise you it will be
a good use of your time! |
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